Jarrod Bowen Snubbed by Thomas Tuchel Despite Wedding Sacrifices for England Duty

Bowen Rearranged Wedding to Dani Dyer Twice for England—Only to Be Left Out

In what has come as a shock to West Ham supporters and neutrals alike, Jarrod Bowen has been omitted from Thomas Tuchel’s first England squad—even after going to the extraordinary length of rescheduling his wedding twice to remain available for national team duty. And yes, this isn’t just any wedding—it’s the one to Dani Dyer, daughter of actor and diehard West Ham fan Danny Dyer.

For many, Jarrod Bowen’s commitment to England has never been in question. His performances in claret and blue have consistently reflected a player desperate to push the ceiling higher—individually and collectively. So when his name was nowhere to be found on Tuchel’s team sheet for the upcoming internationals against Moldova and Senegal, more than a few eyebrows were raised.

Dani Dyer Jarrod Bowen hen do Ibiza

A Wedding, a Call-Up… and a Letdown

In an episode of the Live and Let Dyers podcast, Dani Dyer opened up about the behind-the-scenes chaos of trying to plan a wedding around the unpredictable world of international football.

“We had to move the wedding forward anyway because there’s England games in June,” she revealed. “This was the problem. I would have liked to have left it one more year and then done it in 2026 but if there’s a World Cup, how can I plan a wedding around a potential World Cup? Imagine he got called to the World Cup and then his wedding was booked.”

Planning a wedding is hard enough. But planning one while constantly checking international fixtures, injury lists, and squad announcements? That’s elite-level stress. And yet, Jarrod Bowen and Dyer made the necessary changes—twice—just in case.

But the call never came.

Flying Under Tuchel’s Radar?

Jarrod Bowen, Danny Dyer, Las Vegas stag

Let’s be clear: Jarrod Bowen’s omission is not about form. The West Ham winger has been in sensational touch yet again this season, racking up 21 goal contributions (13 goals, 8 assists) in 33 Premier League games. That includes a blistering run in the final stretch—four goals and two assists in his last five appearances.

It follows an equally productive 2022/23 campaign, where he managed 22 contributions in 34 league matches. For a winger who plays in a physically demanding system under David Moyes, those are elite numbers. By comparison, many of his rivals for the England right-wing berth are producing far less with far more game time and support around them.

Yet, in Tuchel’s first squad, Noni Madueke—who has only recently broken into the Chelsea starting XI with consistency—was preferred as Bukayo Saka’s backup.

Not Just Numbers—It’s Heart and Heritage

Bowen’s case is more than just stats on a spreadsheet. His emotional connection to West Ham, his grit, and his relentless energy make him a perfect candidate for the Three Lions. He’s also got European pedigree now, having played a central role in West Ham’s Europa Conference League success.

He plays with the kind of old-school hunger that England fans adore. He’s the type of player who’ll run through a wall for his badge, and his club loyalty—spending his peak years at West Ham rather than angling for a “big six” move—earns him plenty of respect. It’s hard not to draw comparisons to players like James Milner or Shaun Wright-Phillips in their day—maybe not always glamorous, but consistently impactful.

The Human Cost of Football Dreams

When we talk about footballers missing out on call-ups, we often reduce it to performance debates and tactical choices. But rarely do we talk about the human impact—like the stress on partners and families, the personal milestones postponed, the anxiety that creeps in around selection time.

Imagine being in Jarrod Bowen’s shoes: trying to keep club form red-hot, mentally preparing for a possible international call, and on top of that, rearranging arguably the most important day of your personal life—not once, but twice. All to ensure that, if the phone rang, you’d be ready.

It’s easy to forget that behind the training sessions and goals, footballers have lives, partners, and wedding planners waiting on WhatsApp.

Ibiza in Claret and Blue

Despite the disappointment, the show must go on. As Dani Dyer flies off to Ibiza for her hen do, dressed unapologetically in a full West Ham kit with “Bowen” on the back, it’s a tongue-in-cheek reminder that, at least for some, club colours matter more than country call-ups.

Bowen, meanwhile, will see out West Ham’s final game of the season against Ipswich before heading off on his stag do in Las Vegas. You’d imagine he’ll still keep one eye on the international fixtures—not with bitterness, but with that quiet determination that’s long defined his career.

What Comes Next?

Tuchel’s decision may sting now, but Jarrod Bowen’s England story is far from over. The European Championship looms next summer, and with the right run of form, a tournament spot could still be within reach.

It’s a funny old game. One month you’re planning your wedding around a possible England call-up, the next you’re watching from home as another winger gets the nod. But if there’s one thing we know about Jarrod Bowen, it’s that he won’t let this define him.

He’s been counted out before. Coming from non-league roots, proving himself at Hull City, and then making the leap to Premier League stardom with West Ham—his career has always been about persistence. About proving people wrong. About taking the long road and still getting there in the end.

This latest snub might feel like a door closing, but knowing Jarrod Bowen, it’s more likely a fire being lit.

Final Word
Sometimes, football’s biggest heartbreaks happen far from the pitch. And sometimes, they come dressed in tuxedos and West Ham shirts. Jarrod Bowen may not be heading to Moldova or Senegal with England, but he’s shown he’ll always put the shirt—and those he loves—first. Tuchel may have missed out this time, but England could still find themselves needing a player who knows exactly what it means to sacrifice for the badge.

And if that call ever comes, you can be sure Jarrod Bowen will answer—wedding ring and all.